THE 8 CONFLICTS
As the world gets smaller, people from different cultures are colliding like never before. Although each of these eight conflicts seems unique, we show that many stem from the same root cause: the tension between people who tend to use their independent, separate, and in-control self versus people who tend to use their interdependent, connected, and adjusting self.
Though disputes between selves underlie these problems, merely changing our selves will not solve them. Instead, changing selves also requires changing the cultures that make and mirror them in a process we call the culture cycle. For each clash, we show how to nudge our culture cycles so that we can call forth the best self for each situation. By knowing when and how to use our different selves, we can not only better understand the clashes around us, but also thrive in the 21st century.